My Pet Peeves

Submitted by batgirl on Sat, 06/28/2008 at 4:22pm.

 

It must have been in the fourth grade when I  last wrote a composition with this title and since I try to write such an essay about once every 25 years,  this one is right on schedule.

What is a Pet Peeve, you ask?  It's just something that irritates you for some reason.  Often we endure such things and suffer them in silence.  It doesn't have to be important or even rational.  It doesn't have to be politically correct,  natural or changeable. 

Of course,  since this is a chess.com chess blog,  it must somehow relate to chess or chess.com to merit mentioning.  I'm going to list a few things that annoy me, hopefully without anyone taking offense,  and in return,  I'd like to hear what things bother my dear readers (that's you).

Since I spend some time in the forums and since I have a dial-up internet connection,  a few of my pet peeves involve things that are posted in the forums.
        1. most pictures, unless they are completely chess related, annoy me.
            I find most of them neither clever nor funny  -  just bandwidth
            consuming.
        2. Excessive and unnecessary game boards slow the loading of a
            thread to a crawl and sometimes keep all of the games from
            loading. Generally text move lists are just as effective.
        3. The lazy use of the "quote" feature. I wish that feature were 
            retired.  Whether justified or not, when I come to a posting in
            which the poster unnecessarily quotes long paragraphs of another
            member, or in which quoted passages are stacked like nested
            boxes, I tend to mentally dismiss that person's posting as superfluous.

Now . . .  what bugs you?

 

 

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Comments:

by Evil_Homer - 2 months ago
Dublin Ireland
Member Since: Aug 2007
Member Points: 1211

Oh the IRONY of some of the comments here is just so delicious.Tongue out


by normajeanyates - 3 months ago
london [often in calcutta india] International
Member Since: Jan 2008
Member Points: 1946
i get peeved by 'too easy' written as '2 ez'. [ i know, i know, it is economical :) ]
by broze - 3 months ago
Bath England
Member Since: Nov 2007
Member Points: 195

I completely agree with, loomis and oginschille about the Daily Puzzle.  I often see puzzles described as " too easy"- arrgghhh!!  Is that "too easy" because you are good enough to solve it but are so arrogant you have to let people know?  So to all the 'easy' people (and you know who you are), just be content with your success and remember that there are weaker people than you on this site who find these puzzles more difficult.  Unlike Oginschille I don't think I will be able to let this one go!

Rant over.


by normajeanyates - 3 months ago
london [often in calcutta india] International
Member Since: Jan 2008
Member Points: 1946

"No Pet Peeves here!!!" - ADK

ADK, do you mean you only have wild peeves/ free peeves ? Tongue out

 


by batgirl - 3 months ago
NC United States
Member Since: Jun 2007
Member Points: 3116

3. friends forgetting that i exist
4. friends never leaving me alone - always intruding into my personal space

I'm not sure I'd call it a pet peeve, but I think I have a similar attitude. I hate being ignored, but just the same, I hate being constantly badgered (actually, I don't think it's the badgering part as much as expectations that I do something or be somewhere, infringing on my very limited free time).  

 

If I see 5/3/08, I know it means May 3, 2008. I've never known it to mean anything else, so I don't understand the confusion.   But apparently other people, maybe non-Americans(?), are confused by it.
05.03.08 I have no idea about - other than in .pgn headings where it would mean March 5, 2008.

 

 


by normajeanyates - 3 months ago
london [often in calcutta india] International
Member Since: Jan 2008
Member Points: 1946

4 of my pet peeves (seriously!):

1. ppl not lazy enough to avoid deleting irrelevant quotes while replying

2.  ppl too lazy to delete irrelevant quotes while replying

3. friends forgetting that i exist

4. friends never leaving me alone - always intruding into my personal space

As was pointed out, peeves are not necessarily rational ;) 


by normajeanyates - 3 months ago
london [often in calcutta india] International
Member Since: Jan 2008
Member Points: 1946

Dozy wrote: My pet peeve?  Unnecessarily slow opponents.  I don't mean people who use all their available time--that's their right--but rather those people who play quickly until they find themselves with a lost game then slow down their responses, sometimes even using their vacation allotment, just to avoid losing.

I am not sure about that - i did that three times here after i put piece en prise  in three games [two of them during the half time of a euro cup football game :) ] - i took time to think up counterchances - i converted two losses into wins and i rather think i might manage a draw in the 3rd one one i reach draw i will take more time on that game and try to swindle a win :) . (only one of them is over ... now opps are taking too much time - i really like the trap i set in the latest of these - the 1600- opp couldn't have *not* fallen into it but i can't talk about it - the game isnt over.)


by normajeanyates - 3 months ago
london [often in calcutta india] International
Member Since: Jan 2008
Member Points: 1946

 bemweeks wrote (first pet peeve) dates written like 3/5/08. Is that March 5 or 3 May?

 

In notes to myself or other UK people, I write 3.5.08 to mean 3rd May. If someone writes 3/5/08 i assume they are from north america and they mean 5th march. 

For computer use i prefer to write 3rd may 2008 as 20080503 because then a numeric sort sorts the dates also. 


by bemweeks - 3 months ago
Brussels Belgium
Member Since: May 2008
Member Points: 11

My pet peeves are

  • Dates written like 3/5/08. Is that March 5 or 3 May?
  • Blogs using Chesspublisher.com to publish games. More precisely, blogs overusing it. It's so slow that it reminds me of dialup.
  • People who post personal pet peeves in public places.
  • People who overuse alliteration.

I have more, but I'm contradicting myself about posting pet peeves. - Mark


by ADK - 3 months ago
Santa Clarita, CA United States
Member Since: Aug 2007
Member Points: 9263

No Pet Peeves here!!!

ADK


by 66_Mustang - 3 months ago
Vashon, WA United States
Member Since: Oct 2007
Member Points: 127

Oddly, I suppose, I don't find much annoying here at Chess.com. 

Well, there is one thing - when I decline a challenge to play a game I'm presented with a text box for offering a reason.  I find this annoying.  I simply leave the text box blank and click the "submit" button, but I shouldn't even have to do that.

Oh, and I HATE dial-up!!  Been there, done that, and don't EVER want to go there again.  One cannot enjoy the Internet that way, period!  Yell  (No offense, batgirl)  Smile

   


by matzleeach - 3 months ago
Chicago IL United States
Member Since: Aug 2007
Member Points: 596
Live chess here at chess.com. Can't wait untill they work out all the bugs.
by Loomis - 3 months ago
Durham, NC United States
Member Since: Oct 2007
Member Points: 2188

I share oginschile's pet peeve about the daily puzzle. The comments are such drivel that if there is anything interesting to discuss it gets lost.  It seems like most days somebody says "the puzzle doesn't work becuase of X" and despite someone answering why X doesn't break the puzzle, the complaint gets repeated several times by some chess idiots who think they're God's gift to the daily puzzle.

 

I also share the quote peeve. Perhaps there should be a forum setting to hide all quotes. Then the sane among us don't have to have our reading experience crapped on by huge gray boxes of PRJ (previously read junk).


by gretagarbo - 3 months ago
USA United States
Member Since: Aug 2007
Member Points: 30
I don't think I could come up with a more irritating situation than receiving the comment "Good Game" from my opponent , right after I have gotten myself in a totally embarrassing position and  resigned .
by rookierae - 3 months ago
Pennsylvania United States
Member Since: Aug 2007
Member Points: 85

I hate it when male players treat me uneaqually just because I'm a girl.  Not saying all males do it, just a bunch of rude ones I know.

I also don't like when people don't notate after every move and then want to take a few short minutes to copy my notation of the game before we're done.

I don't appreciate "check".  Now that it's against the rules, anyone who plays chess should know that and not say it.  Most friends I play that aren't rated or anything I don't mind so much, but rated kids in chess club should know better.  In April, I was in a small unrated tournament in Canada and I had to play two people two times, one as white, and one as black and I was the only girl in my section.  While the rules were being talked about and clarified, I was trying to listen but every boy that was sitting near me was talking or goofing off.  When the rules were being discussed at a part I knew well, I turned around and asked them to be quiet.  They started being rude and dissing me bacause I was so "uptight".  I said, "Well, I guess we know who's here to win and who's here to lose."  When I started my first game, I soon found out that the boy went to the tournament to just get a day off school.  The first game, I easily checkmated him after he made some huge blunders.  The second game, I was winning and I decided to teach him a little something about rules.  I started checking him without saying check.  He started moving into check and that was how I won my second game.  He lost after doing it three times.  BTW  I took second place in that tournament.


by oginschile - 3 months ago
Salt Lake City, UT United States
Member Since: Aug 2007
Member Points: 961

Daily puzzles - nobody cares whether you got it or thought it was easy. For some reason the "first" and "second" postings aren't too big a bother to me... but the constant crying that puzzles are too easy, even when they are clearly difficult is a serious annoyance to me. But one that I should just be able to get over.

I do have to say.. i have been guilty of putting in unnecessary game diagrams into threads that aren't necessarily about the game I'm putting in. I have thought about that once or twice, that perhaps it annoys people. I have now that about it twice or three times.

One other thing is not necessarily a pet peeve but something i just wish wouldn't happen, is when my favorite bloggers take a break from blogging. As if they have the right not to entertain me.

umm... thats about it.


by rexbo - 3 months ago
tasmania Australia
Member Since: Nov 2007
Member Points: 281

people who don't press clocks instead they wipe there whole hand over it.

And people who annotate their games without any new ideas example.

1.e4 takes control of the center and allows whites queen and bishop to develop

that is possibly the most annoying thing but i did do it once or twice and i do apologise thouroughly.


by ih8sens - 3 months ago
Sudbury, Ontario Canada
Member Since: Jan 2008
Member Points: 1390
Can't stand people who cheat, and even worse is people who accuse others of cheating... just drop the whole issue.
by patupat - 3 months ago
Diliman, Quezon City Philippines
Member Since: Oct 2007
Member Points: 102
my pet peeve - rating-conscious players  who do everything and everything possible in this world to raise their rating. For me, playing the game is primary while rating is a by-product.
by batgirl - 3 months ago
NC United States
Member Since: Jun 2007
Member Points: 3116

"I disagree about the games diagrams"

That's the thing.  A pet peeve is so personal, it doesn't even matter if it's reasonable.  So, whether anyone, or everyone, agrees is totally irrelevant.

But I think it's facinating to find out what really annoys people.


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