anyone who has played me knows I can joke and have fun. I am not trying to pretend to be a girl I just like her pic.

Yeah, I could easily put up a pic of a 21 year old model who is a total babe to hide the fact that I'm an overweight middle-aged man and no one would know.  Except me, because I would keep thinking to myself "who are you kidding".  Look forward to seeing you in Metalheads.

if any one does not want to chat then you block it out why take it away from orther players, i have a lot of fun talking to other players and joking around with them, So if you don't want to chat then don't.

ok i changed my pic is this better

that's is good for me ,Tina, good luck to you tina, i know we dont plat anymore

hey i had some similliar issues. no matter what u do they or what you say they're gonna come at you (the picture). a pretty pic is the closest a lot of these peeps (guys/gals) are gonna get to the real thing

    block the chat and play chess.

    if the picture causes a distraction that keeps you from enjoying the

          site change it, to hhmmmmm, an indian head.

I dont want to seem like a snob or anything I have my issues also

it's just kind of annoying  having some guy from  who knows where calling you baby and sweety and things like that just because of a pic how do they know thats even a real pic have you ever thought about that

yes there are guidelines and no there is not much you can do about people that ignore them on private chat, you can report them if it is bad enough, but do not give up there are a lot more good,friendly people on this site