I went to your profile pages and you actually have a good winning percentage there.  You're lucky you seem to have a good son, and keep it up!  What better to maintain that relationship than through exciting activities together (like chess). 

I know that my son dose not unerstand but he just means well as i got to 1400+ all by myself and i know that i can do better and i know i can beat my jesse but he just wants to give them away so anyone who wants to play my youngest son can. I dont need to cheat as i have other id and i am losing more then i am winning there but i would not play myself just for points as that is not what the game is about and my oldest son beats me all the time and if i know i can beat them i always play my friends unrated my other id is golden_monkey if you want to see what i am like there and if you want to play me then that is fine...

Yes but his other son will argue with him on it dad doesnt feel he needs it but jesse wants to help anyway strange boy my brother is

Isn't colluding to manipulate the ratings system a little unethical? Not to mention totally against the rules? And, as littleman points out, almost completely pointless?

Yeah he is a good sucker  so what does he really want? lol .....

its good jesse is doing that for u very nice of him indeed even if i cant understand what difference it will actualy make in the long run