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what ruins this site is...

that some people on here say really inappropriate things. im on this site to play a few games of chess and chat to the people i play against, the majority of which are really friendly. i had a male on here recently saying very inappropriate things to me during a game... i disabled chat. have logged onto my account today and found the same guy has posted this comment on my picture album...

"  played with me plzzzzzzzzzzzzz sexy and i love u i won fack u "

what exactly does this have to do with chess??? its masogenist (spelling?) and unwanted, i guess im hoping this person will read this, or others who in the past have said such things to me (believe me, ive encountered a fair few) and maybe thing ok, i shouldnt have said that, ill calm down. fair enough if youve gotten to know me as a friend i can take a joke, but this is just rediculous.

how many other female players have had this problem?? and actually, im curious, do any males have this problem from female members on here? im pretty interested to know just how regular this kind of problem is on this website.  


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  • 2 years ago

    footheavydee

    Hello SpiceKitten !

     

         I have been away from this site for quite sometime, I have a lot of catching-up to do.  I have read all the messages you have left me, it is highly unfortunate that this bull-crap is still continuing, however, you are one of the most Sensitive and more Beautiful Personalities on this site Smile !  You will always be my Friend online no matter what ( Stupid A-- ) that is on line lol !  You are heading for far greater challenges than this crap so don't give it a moment's thought okay !  Take the necessary action if you feel you need to okay !  This is really Harrassment at it's finest so get the police involved if you have to that is my verdict on this matter ! Girlfriend you have been missed terribly and I wish you Happy Holiday's up and coming okay.  I am back in town so drop one of your closest friend a line Laughing!  I am looking forward to playing you a game okay so send me a challenge lol.  Chow for now beautiful !

     

                                                               Footheavydee 


  • 3 years ago

    peterwaffles

    Thats just nasty and un chessperson like. He should be banned from chess worldwide and taken to the edge of town.

  • 3 years ago

    bernard41

    it never happens to me

  • 4 years ago

    mueller

    Misogynist is the spelling you're searching for I believe. I don't have much else to add to the conversation but I hope things have gotten more mature and appropriate lately.


  • 4 years ago

    lostapiece

    if they know about it they`ll boot it , im sure !
  • 4 years ago

    thespicekitten

    i doubt anyone would want to play him anyway, his rating sucks!
  • 4 years ago

    MarquisCrocker

    I suggest you tell us who this person is, and I will not play any games with him. This kind of behaviour is inappropriate. If we all stick together and refuse to communicate with this person or any others who do this kind of thing, in any way, maybe it will cease.

    So it is written, so let it be done.

    Peace to you my sister.

    Marquis 

     


  • 4 years ago

    cowboyboots42

    you should report the abuse, i'm sure they'll sort it out if you do, plenty of other places for that type of stuff
  • 4 years ago

    thespicekitten

    LOL!! now theres an idea...
  • 4 years ago

    absolom

    I concur....it is completely ridiculous...these women just wont leave me alone...They are always making sexual references to me :~)

     No seriously....Sorry this cat is pi$$ing you off....I suggest you go right back at him...tell him you are not into pawn size men or something....

     


  • 4 years ago

    thespicekitten

    im not going to let this affect me using the site, but even tho u maybe think it sounds harsh, it does ruin the site for me. cos this isnt the 1st time its happened. it happens quite alot if im honest. but sure, ive met more good people than bad, which does outweigh it for me!

    like i said, im curious to know if this happens to other people, male or female?  


  • 4 years ago

    thespicekitten

    i guess i have the option of reporting it, but

    1. i wouldnt know how to go about it, and

     2. i dont wanna be responsible for kicking anyone off the site

    so i guess there isnt alot the management can do. it just puzzles me as theres plenty of websites for flirting with other people, why bring it here?? 


  • 4 years ago

    korix

    I want to see what will the management will do about this "unsportsmanlike" behaviour... Yell
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