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My personal exchange sacrifice


Life mirrors chess in more ways than you can imagine. However, life isn’t meant to be a game to start over if things don't turn out the way you'd like them. Rather, it requires proper attention to fully understand the position life tends to throw at you. My readers have been amply aware of my absence in the chess improvement blog community and I appreciate all the well wishers who reached out and really appreciate everyone’s understanding.

A certain series of events happened over the course of the summer starting around mother’s day concerning the most important people in my life. The perfect storm of events placed me in an untenable position where I had to chose one unfavorable solution over another and it was overwhelming.

To put it in a chess metaphor parlance, it was as if I had to exchange my queen for an unclear position in order to get out from under a very cramped situation. I’m making very careful moves as I settle into a new position which looks favorable for a minor piece assisting a pawn promotion (biological imperative overriding others). I hope to get my queen back as sometimes sacrifices are only temporary.

The dust is beginning to settle but I still have a great deal of work ahead of me. Chess is still calling me and I am barely staying afloat with occasional online games and rarer cameos at local OTB one day events. I still have that chess improvement story to complete and journey to blog. For now, it will remain a sporadic periodic update and possible chess musings. Someday, I will be back to the “time machine” and my magical history tour.

Until then, study your tactics, understand your positions, and above all, don’t sacrifice your queen for an unclear position unless you really know what you are doing.

 

-BP

Comments


  • 6 months ago

    elbowgrease

    ;)

  • 6 months ago

    Anatoly_Sergievsky

    I wish all the best to you; and that you will be able to "get your queen back."

    Hoping and praying the best for you no matter what happens.

  • 6 months ago

    NrthrnKnght

    I still like diogens analysis.Spot on.Call it what you may HE is RIGHT."most women look at time spent at the board as time lost to them.

  • 6 months ago

    cgk

    If I understand as many as I could, we (mans) can't doing nothing when the life (of our's love family for example) clame to goes forward. The best things to do is relax and, inclusely, apreciate the phenomena. 

    My respect to you.

  • 6 months ago

    diogens

    The right move is not to marry. But if you blunder and get divorced, it's ridiculous to repeat the same blunder in the next game.

    Most women are manipulators and try to change the commited husband to their wish. So:

    - Dont marry.

    - if you marry, don't change.

    - If you get divorced, not repeat the blunder.

    -If you are not having good sex at least twice a weak, something isn't working.

    And remember to make her pay her part of the bills. If not, she will never take you seriously. You will not be her lover, just the bill payer.

  • 6 months ago

    Blunderprone

    I prefer to remain criptic... sorry for the ambiguity. My already complicated life got more complicated after a perfect storm of events took place.  In Short... teen age daughter ran away earlier this year... too many fights with my current wife ( not her mom) for her to return, I moved out because my daughter is THAT important. My daughter returned to live with me. 

  • 6 months ago

    AnlamK

    You are either getting a divorce or a new child. 

    Couldn't really decipher between the two. 

  • 6 months ago

    herbanmusic

    we all do personal sacrifices now and then, and funny enough chess tends to call for us all the time...

    Just a summer busy with live shows and i got amazingly rusty straight away...just 2-3 months and that was it !!! Keep strong man !!

  • 6 months ago

    Cleptomania

    Last year was a difficult one for me also, and so I believe I know what you're talking about.  Hang in there.

  • 6 months ago

    davidmelbourne

     "Don’t sacrifice your queen for an unclear position, unless you really know what you are doing."

    Agreed. What you are really doing, when you do that, is exchanging one set of problems for a new - and invariably greater - set of problems. 

  • 6 months ago

    pawnstorm17

    thumbs up!

  • 6 months ago

    hreedwork

  • 6 months ago

    hreedwork

    BP,

    God Bless you, I hope you can wend your way through uncertain positions! 

    Take care,
    hreedwork... 

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