As usual Nadia, something positive & helpful to say. Thank you. BUT- the tournament we are in, makes us admit that the winner is a soul taker! Only in fun, of course, but a bet is a bet.

Winning is a habit.It's an all time thing.You need to believe you can win firstly to start up the circle.

You cant lose your soul.You can only distress it.

As there is a will for developing,there is one for selfdestructing in each and every person.We can control both by thinking possitive and trust in ourselves.

Unfortunately we are constructed in a way to believe something only when there is at least one evidence for its success,or any hope for it.

To learn believing ourselves is one of the hardest things for us as we know ourselves better than the others.

In my opinion we have to work out our moods first,then to learn thinking possitive and start believing ourselves at the end.Generally it's not a recipe for THE success,but at least something we can do for not feeling the pain of the so-called"LOSING OURSELVES".

I hardly recommend the following book: "THE SECRET" by Rhonda Byrne.